You showed me how to communicate with ‘The Girls’ to find out what they thought of things and encourage them to show me why I thought the way I did.
It felt like they appreciated being given attention and eventually they showed me something crucial to my future wellbeing.
They showed me that I could be extremely beautiful – if I chose to.
I could do the guy stuff – if I chose to.
I could be the Mother – when I needed to.
There was no longer any need to be all of them, all of the time – causing scattered and confusing moods. They were all merely suits that I could put on and take off when I needed to.
The pressure that released was life changing, The Girls became one and I felt calmer and more in control.